The path from conflict to connection
Conflict is a doorway to deeper intimacy
Since 2008, James 'Fish' Gill has led individuals, couples, communities and businesses in transforming conflict and relational breakdown into repair, healing and deeper connection.
A heart coach, transformational facilitator and author of How To Fall In Love With Humanity, his work is grounded in a simple truth: when we learn how to witness and validate each other’s humanity, even the hardest conversations become places of openheartedness, willingness, understanding and accountability.
Fish’s radically compassionate approach to conflict resolution and relationship repair supports clients in 18 countries. He has trained over 40 therapists globally, and equipped leaders and teams with the skills to navigate interpersonal tension with courage, empathy and clarity.
9 WEEK GROUP COACHING PROGRAM
Communication Coaching for Individuals & Couples
An Invitation for Men
Learn how to move beyond criticism and judgement, and lead your relationships back to the deep trust, understanding and intimacy you have been missing.
An Invitation for Women
Begin to heal your past hurts, and overcome frustration, misunderstanding and resentment, so you can finally be truly, deeply understood. The ultimate self care.
Co-parenting with an Ex
Pave the way for more trust and understanding with your ex by changing how you respond to those situations that have been most hurtful and frustrating to you both.
“Thank you. You’ve expanded my mind & spirit beyond the places I used to get stuck, and impacted my life in the most beautiful way.”
FAWNE, HAWAII
This is skills development, not therapy, counselling or mediation.
We don’t focus on the ‘why’ of your relationship upsets, we guide you in ‘how to’ lead the way back to mutual understanding, so you can feel heard and seen. You’ll learn practical skills you can use in every moment of conflict to come back to love with those you cherish.
RETREATS & WORKSHOPS
Up-level your Capacity for Connection
The wellbeing of our relationships depends wholly on your capacity to navigate the inevitable moments of misunderstanding and upset we encounter. It’s time to master the communication skills that help you turn upset in deeper understanding.
HEART COACH
Online Facilitator Training
This 6 month intensive training gives you the skills to lead your clients and communities in the practices of Conscious Communication to mend their relationship upsets. Prerequisite learning: completion of a group or 1:1 coaching program, retreat or workshop with me.
COME BACK TO LOVE/ MEND
In-Person Retreats & Masterclasses
Fish’s signature COME BACK TO LOVE Masterclasses will be taking place in multiple locations across Australia this year.
Podcast Interviews & Public Speaking
Fish is often interviewed on the following key topics:
Communication, Relationships, Transforming Conflict, Rituals of Sacred Connection, Positive Workplace Culture, Positive Parenting, Yogic Practices and Philosophy for Living With Grace. Speaking engagements include:
2019 iOTF6 Conference (Sydney and Gold Coast).
2018 Positive Education Schools Association Conference, Perth.
2018 iOTF5 Conference, Gold Coast.
2017 Positive Schools Conference 2017, Brisbane, Perth.
2017 WA Mental Health Conference, Perth.
2007 International Drama in Education Conference, Hong Kong.
